India is on a cusp. There is clearly a gap widening between the haves and the have-nots. This disparity has its several side-effects on the society, but this is not what Iam discussing here today.The well read/bread are all the time nudging the envelope and have left their footprints on every part of the mother earth and beyond. When these globe trotters come back to their country of birth, like a sea-gull fliesback to the boat it flew away from, they can tell the difference. Been there done that generation in this country is getting restless as the taxes paid by them are either not spent by the authorities as desired or are being misused by those who donot pay those taxes themselves and donot value the infrastructure created for a civilised life.

There was this well defined gap in the median strip on a newly built road in my city. Everything was great but then after some time a petrol pump came up just before that gap in the median.For those driving on the same side of the road on which the petrol pump was made it was a direct access, but for others driving on the other side itwas very tempting to just cross over to the other side and drive about 50mtrs in the wrong side to reach the pump, instead of going all the way to the next turn 1.5 kms away and taking a U-turn.This going against the traffic rules lead to a mess at the crossing on a daily basis, especially during the rush hours on an otherwise not so busy road. Then one day, an otherwise indifferent, authorities flung into action and decided to close that gap in the median, to put an end to that nuisance, with seemingly impenetrable reinforced cement road barriers. But for the riders it would mean no crossing between 2 turns 3 kms apart.Ignoring the diktat, initially a few dare devils started lifting their cycles or motorbikes over the median to cross over. Then one fine day, or rather night, a few kerbstones of the median edge were removed to create a gap between the newly placed road blocks by some unknown citizen and thus the 2 wheelers, with some difficulty, started flowing through the gap. The trickle became a poor and the traffic jam was back again and this time with more severity as there was a long queue of bikers who found it inconvenient driving up to the next U-turn 1.5 kms away. Once again some extra RCC blocks were put by the road authorities to squash this pest of an issue. Barely very next day a similar drive through was created on the other side of the RCC blocks this time big enough for even 3 wheelers.

What does it say about our psyche?This is a very small example that how we are misusing our democracy and nobody wants to toe the line. There is a constant struggle between the managment and the managed in this country. Everybody blames the government for the traffic jams but nobody bothers to behave responsibly and takes care of their own duties.

The hangover of “the Raj” is so evident in our everyday life that we still feel that Civil disobedience is a way of life. Nobody remembers or cares that the British left this country some 75 years ago and now it is our responsibility to run this nation and make it habitable for everyone.
May be uneducation is the cause why people donot understand their Rights and Duties. But then how does one explain that the same set of people behave differently when they travel abroad.

Clearly the citizens in this nation are breathing in a lot of air of misplaced independence. And this is so visible in every public action of the constituents of this great country. Doesn’t this explain the attitude to disobey/disrespect even simple rules meant directly for the well-being of every citizen like throwing trash in bins, wearing helmets, seat-belts etc etc or something very recent as wearing of masks for protection against Covid-19 ?If at all rules are followed it is to escape fines or penalties.

As a nation, we were lucky we didnothave to go through the adversities of an all out war in our recent history.Those nations which were almost totally devastated and decimated during both the world wars less than a century ago are much ahead in terms of providing good living conditions totheir citizens. And this can be possible only if both the sides contribute. Every nation has to go through this transformation and we too are changing everyday. But we must believe that the colonial days are well behind us and it is about time we start introspecting and respecting our public property and duties.








